Hi, we are
Rochi and Milo, and we are going to write an article about transgender kids.
Our article will be about the distinctions that transgender people has and how
it is a problematic for them.
Firstly, it
is important to distinguish the terms "sex" and "gender":
Sex: refers
to the physical, biological and physical aspects that differentiate men from
women that are natural and essentially unchangeable.
Eg: The defining characteristics of a woman
- · existence of breasts
- · hips widened
- · female genital
And the ones that define a man
- · back / shoulders widened
- · more corpulent body than women
- · male genital
It is the distinction between MAN AND WOMAN.
GENDER: Set
of psychological, social and cultural characteristics, socially assigned to
people. These characteristics are historical; they change with and by the time
and, therefore, are changeable. It differs between male and female gender.
So now we
can look up the differences between sexual orientation and gender identity…
The term
sexual orientation refers to the sex a person is attracted to in a emotional,
romantic, sexual and affective plane. Sexual orientation is different from
sexual behavior because it refers to feelings and not with the action.
The term
gender identity refers to the consciousness of a person to feel belonging to
the male or female character. That is, a person may feel a gender identity
distinct from their innate physiological characteristics.
In other
words, the person may feel like a woman even if it was born with male body, or
may feel man, though born with female body.
Gender
expression refers to how a person communicates its identity and gender through
their behavior, dress, hair and voice.
In this
sense, gender identity minorities are transgender
In
conclusion
When a
human being is feels attracted by another, is his sexual orientation that
defines it heterosexual, homosexual or bisexual.
When a man
feels that he was born in the wrong biological sex, his gender identity is what
defines that is transgender.
Transgender kids in the society:
Young
children whose are transgender or which gender expression differs from their
birth physiological characteristics face a lot of stigma in society, bullying
and rejection by family. This rejection can be concrete, with punishment, or
indirect, where the family pushes the young man to "amend" their
behavior and way of being.
Like the
gay and lesbian children or adolescents, young transgender trauma deepens each
time they are besieged, which often turns into depression, low self-esteem and
suicidal thoughts. It also encourages the internalized hatred that years later
leads to alcohol and drug abuse, and compulsive sex.
But it’s
not always like that. Trauma and the harmful effects of rejection and bullying
may be counteracted in different ways. The most successful way is love♥,
understanding and family support, which helps the child avoid suffer
greater psychological harm.
We left you a video that shows how to treat with a transgender kid and how love, understanding and family support can make a child life happier... VIDEO ... we hope you like it.